Showing posts with label the couple. Show all posts
Showing posts with label the couple. Show all posts

Thursday, August 30, 2012

To all married husband in the world, this is what is actually desirable wives.


My Husband,


May have implied in the mind that you have been wrong chose to be your wife. Sometimes I'm bothered with all spoiled. I also often limit the freedom of thy not same anymore like it used to be. I often kick you because it's cigarette smoke. Even doze off first when you come home late.


But, at a time when you're busy with your work, remember that I have always faithfully waiting for you. Pray for you in my anxiety.


And while I'm willing to go with you, remember that there are many people that I left for you. My parents, my brother, shakoor had it. And let you fill the entire emptiness of my heart.


As I accidentally did a mistake. Let ego and rudeness shown. But treat me gently and talk in peace.


Now I want you to keep me company, and you're dissolved in teriris and kesibukanmu, my heart is thirsting for perhatianmu. I ask for is a little attention.


Desire A Wife
When you want to go and I want you to live in my side, believe me it's not solely because of jealousy. But because I do not want much in your trust.


When I cry sniffle, I want you to hug me and say "everything will be fine."


As I was riled, seize my hand. Without saying anything I know that you will never leave me.


Tell me everything to me, it's not like you're telling your spouse, but you like to your friends.


When starting my wish too much, remind me to always be thankful to have you. And that all owned in this world will we leave it in the future.


And when I was defeated by a sleepy wake me gently. Remind me that responsibility has not been kuselesaikan. Not to sound fierce which makes me scared.


When you're drifting in a sea of emotions, view my eyes deeply. Deep inside the beningnya, there is love for you, and I'm the one that you love it.


I love you always,



Your Wife.

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Wednesday, August 15, 2012


Households live Big Dipper is not always smooth and as expected. Many obstacles and temptations that often lead to anxiety or stress load. According to Catherine Cohan, research psychologist at Penn State University, United States, stress buffers make your relationship less tolerant which makes it difficult to solve the problem.

1. Empathize

You may feel so stressed out every time I hear the problem of the couple. But to understand your partner's feelings through conversation can make a healthy discussion so without having to fight. "Helping the couple to feel what she did not understand, would reduce opportunity for argument. And let him know what's on your mind," said Leslie Campis, PhD, clinical psychologist.

2. Show him that you really listen to

Get rid of the smartphone and TV remote. Focus on him, try again what has been said and, if possible, be clear on things that need to be. Doing this will reinforce the feelings and help you feel closer.

3. Using the language of togetherness

Use the word we are not me or you. Cheryl Gore-Felton, PhD, professor of clinical psychology at Stanford School of Medicine said, when you say "you never help and I'm sick," it would make the situation more messy. But try to compare it with the words "let's find a way together to help each other solve our problems". That will dampen unwanted atmosphere.

4. Stay in touch

If you are stressed, the last thing you might want to do is hold hands or hug. "Linking back to touch skin to skin can help relieve stress," says Dr. Gore-Felton. Even if your partner was sensitive and easily offended, try to hold hands with your gentle touch. And, if you do not close, send SMS or email to notify you when you are being memikirnnya.

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